Well it's our last day in FL and I must say I had the best time with my mom.
Its funny because one would think me being a single female in a place loaded with men, I'd feel like I was in a meat market and carefully be making my selections.
It wasn't like that at all actually I met one guy and he was sweet but I didn't meet anyone who I can say would lead to a long term romance, but I can tell ya there was lots of flirting going on.
Flirting to me is healthy, fun, and shows you still got it! I say if men no longer look at you or drool in a sense, then it might be one if four things:
- They are already taken
- You are not working it
- They are shy
- Or they prefer a man too! Which means competition for you! LOL
Single ladies you don't have to have a man with you to have fun on a vacation! My mom is 62 years old and when I say we had a lot of fun I mean just that!
Too many times being single causes our hidden co-dependency to kick in and we no longer believe we can have fun around our family and friends especially if we are trying to get our groove back and well, I'm not so sure that would go well with your mother! Sure I know companionship is important and we all want it, but if it's not happening yet make it happen and keep the joy in your life going!
It's important to remember the people who love and support you, who encourage you, and who motivate you many times can turn out to be even more fun than hanging with a "boyfriend" if things aren't really going well in the relationship at the time. I know I personally would never book a trip with someone that I've spent at least three days arguing with for what ever reasons and not resent him occasionally which is bound to take away from the fun of the trip! I hear it too many times, " I don't want to go on a trip without a man!" huh suit yourself!
Now I'm not saying that all couples do is argue, but I am saying I laugh with my mom more than I argue! I laugh more with my best friends and sister more than I argue.
How about a different kind of fun!
We must make the time to love and embrace those around us at this very moment. We must stop feelings of inadequacy simply because at this time we are still single.
Trust me beautiful, your day will come and if you're unhappy with who you are it may just pass you by!
Tinzley B
2 comments:
Great advice! I was a single woman for a long time, and you really do get to spend the most time with and truly enjoy your immediate family when you are single. Hanging out with my brother used to be so easy. Now that we are both married, finding time to hang out is like trying to catch a rainbow in a jar - damn near impossible.
Love your blog - keep up the great posts!
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Thank you very much! I work to get the message out. I glanced at your blog and I'm liking it. Come back soon!!
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