Should You Even Consider Dating a Married Man?

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The answer is absolutely, positively not! You are heading for trouble if you do. These are my views only but I'm certain many will agree. I know there may be quite a pack of excuses that many married men may give to make a single woman feel like he's really not that married. Whatever that means. If he isn't divorced then he's married. I repeat; If he isn't divorced then he's married. Let's face it, being single comes with a lot of lonely nights if you're not seeing anyone and sometimes I'm certain things get kind of tempting right? I mean some attention is better than none, even coming from a married man right? Wrong!

I wanted to highlight a few things some married men might tell you to try and convince you to be his mistress. Don't let this happen to you.Even if it seems right it's not right, that's the bottom line.

1. We aren't happy anymore so it's okay for me to see you occasionally. Okay so he told you he isn't happy anymore. Does this mean it's okay to move forward with this married man? No. Ask him what he's doing to save his marriage? If you can't call him when you want to or come visit him then he's still married and you'll be just a get away when it's convenient for him.

2. Oh we're just friends, my wife doesn't mind. Okay if he tells you this then you should ask him and his wife out for a nice dinner one evening and see just how much about you she really knows. Be prepared for cruel stares from her by the way. Chances are, she hasn't heard a thing about you.

3. She filed a divorce; I'm just waiting to be served the papers. Okay so let him know once you're served and your divorce is final then we can date. Tell him deuces!!!

4. I want you not her. Okay if he says this old lame line, let him know you want him too but not only a small amount of him and his time, but all of him. So once again if he's not divorced yet then he's married.

5. Can I come see you tonight? Me and her got into an argument. Ummm no! You are not his playboy palace. He better go get a hotel room or sleep on the family couch. You're asking for trouble if you let this married man come over. They'll be some love making heart breaking and bed shaking going on for sure. I don't know about you, but last time I checked, men and women were very easily attracted to each other. Especially at about 2:00 when the moon is right. Girl don't do it!

6. Just let me take you on a nice dinner. Tell him sure, is your wife coming? Watch him freeze up.

I'm no expert but I can tell you from living my life and witnessing much, dating a married man is not a good idea. He chose his wife and it's his job to live with his decision. If he's no longer happy he shouldn't be allowed to just run to various women to relieve himself  if you know what I mean. He should be man enough to have a talk with his wife, see if they can work some things out and if not then he should first become single and available before you even think about dating him and him you. Let me say this, maybe you should watch Life Time Television http://www.mylifetime.com/movies/lifetime-movie-network and Wicked Attractions. http://investigation.discovery.com/tv/wicked-attraction/ I'd like to hear your views on this. What do you think? Should you consider dating a married man?

Tinzley Bradford