I'm Into You, You're Into Me...Now What?

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So what are the next steps? I really don’t even know at this point and I’m actually quite tired of playing the game called,” What’s he thinking?” I decided to allow and trust this guy who after many years of just barely speaking finally expressed a “crush” he says he’s had on me for years. So I’m feeling honored and excited at the same time. Part of me wants him to know, part of me doesn’t. It’s been known that if a guy knows you’re just as interested in him as he is in you, then you’re no challenge. 

I’m stuck at this point, but decided to go ahead and just open up. I mean I’m 38 years old and I’m not trying to be single forever; so why not share my feelings with him? Amazingly he received it well and we started to message and text each other consistently. I’m feeling good at this point. I told him I’m looking for my husband, he told me he’s looking for his wife.  The conversation just seemed to flow and I’m like whoa I might be on to something. 

Suddenly it all stopped! Which is what I was hoping wouldn't happen, but totally expected it. He'd already told me he requires a lot of attention which to me is kinda hard to do if you clearly see he's no longer showing interest in you anymore. I mean what the heck is it? They poor their soul out and you poor yours out, we both are supposedly on the same page and I'm feeling super good right now. Then he turns around and pulls this. The no call, not text, no chat, no sign of interest after just days before being all engaged in conversation. Now I'm not expecting a guy to call me 24/7, but I also don't expect to not hear from the very person who just days before said he wants to be with me. "For real!" 

What I don't want to do is feel stressed or desperate and worried about whether or not he will call back if I call him first and it goes to his voice mail. Or if I text and he doesn't respond or even if I send an IM and suddenly his status goes to "Member is now offline." Ugh!

Earlier I posted on twitter and my tweet was :

tinzleyb 

Whatever you may be about to do, think about how it makes you feel. You'll be amazed at the way you may or may not have a change of heart!

 

So I will apply this to my current experience with Mr. I won't call her, I'll let her call me. I will no longer try to make a square peg fit in a round hole. If this man is meant for me and me for him, then I'd be writing an entirely different blog talking about how awesome he is. Instead I'm once again blogging about the not so good experience I'm once again having the moment I try to open up and date. I mean we were laughing, we were so compatible, we were  so "into each other."

Okay I have to ask your opinions. If this was you would you be more open minded, call him and be like "What happened? I mean you didn't call today?" or would you just pack up and move on as I'm going to do? I just don't have time to give lessons on dating. You're either interested or you're not.

Thank you