Minister C Chandon Carter, made this post on his wall today on Face Book:
"Welcome back to "SINLESS SATURDAY" todays message: Ladies if you are chasing up behind these men, STOP! because most of us men only want one thing, and when they get it... it's on to the next one! A womans Heart should be hidden in GOD, that a man must seek GOD to find YOU! Treat your Body & Soul like a Rolls Royce... ......We always see Toyota Commericals! Grace2u!"
I really appreciate his honesty and his ability to let ladies know we should weed out all the bull crap and cherish our bodies. My question however is, why are men always known to us as being after only one thing? Why are they always just after one thing then on to the next one? Do they not cherish their bodies? Do they feel its okay to do things like that and just move on as if nothing happened? I'm so glad I don't engage in sex fast lately and my reason is because I just don't trust men easily anymore. It's hard to let someone in, when you're not even sure why he's truly there. I have lost many guys because I refuse to have sex with them no matter how much they try to smooth talk their way into my bed.
Do men have compassion and do they know how to love? Do they have a heart and do they know how to feel? While I do agree with Minister Carter, I still don't get it. I don't know why women have to always do the protecting and the looking out for dirty dogs. Can someone tell me honestly without getting defensive why most men have this hit and run mentality? Do they ever really want just one woman?
Tinzley Bradford
5 comments:
I think its just their hormones and many have high sex drives. They just get attracted to a female or male and instantly want to scre I guess.
That's interesting, hmmm wonder if that's the case.
I truly believe it's because too many women allow this behavior. A man can't do what a woman doesn't allow. If the man needs to be saturated by "milk" and the milk is free, heck no he's not going to waste his money on the cow. As women, we lay down our integrity too often. We don't make a man "man up." We are too busy making excuses for a man's behavior. The answer is, they do it because they can. No self control because non is need. Now, the question is, when are we women going to pull together and say "enough is enough" and stop acting like desparate "whores." We have a purpose in which God made us. How are we going to reach our divine destiny allowing men to treat us like trash. Written by: Min. Felicia.
Thanks Felicia, interesting and great points you make. That's one of my purposes for blogging about my relationship issues, I'd like more people to began to realize dating is something that should continue to go on when learning each other and stop all the rushing to the bed room. I want females to demand respect and not be so vunerable to men just so they can say they have one. Thanks for your comment.
Better late than never, right? Felicia is spot on with her comment. Men are allowed to do as we please, so we hit the easy button. With that said, not all men are like this. There are quite a few men out there who want what some ladies may want. I just think that those guys appeal to a lot of ladies.
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