Today was sweet, although I didn't have a valentine; I got a lot of very sweet text messages from my friends and some old guys I've dated. That was thoughtful. My daughter and I made this really good strawberry cream cheese valentines cake with whip cream, and it was delicious. That was very fun spending time together and making a cake together. I tell you, being with family is priceless.
I have a lot of mixed emotions about being single. Most days are good, then I get surrounded by people who are in relationships constantly talking about it, and it can get me a little down at times. I mean, who doesn't want to have that special person in their lives?
This guy had the nerve to text me today as if nothing bad had happened between us in the past. He is someone who I recently met, but never got a chance to connect with. The moment we finally began to talk, I got offended when I asked him what he was up to and his response was, "I want to lick your fat ###, but I'm playing". I was so offended til I just hung up the phone after I cursed him out. Anyway, because he disrespected me, I'd erased him from my contacts list in my cell phone. So when he texted, I didn't know who he was. Needless to say, once he told me his name, then I knew and immediately got turned off again.
Why did this fool turn around and send me a picture in my phone as if I cared? He then had the nerve to ask me to send a picture and lock his number in since I told him he was no longer locked in. I mean, is he stupid or something, does he think he can just order me around or something? I told him I'm turned off and had to remind him a second time what happened. He claimed he didn't remember saying that to me. How can people be so insensitive and self adsorbed? This type stuff makes me really wonder if I will ever be in love again. Many people find it hard to believe that I haven't gotten married or that I am still single. But what they don't see is this crap men take me through, I'm not at anyone’s disposal and will not be treated that way. The sad part is, there are some women who would have just sent him the picture and locked him back into their phones. I'm certain this is why he thought he could try me.
I'd like to know how your valentine’s day went for all who wish to share please do so. Also, please single ladies, just know that you are beautiful and don't feel bad being single. There is so much to learn and every day we all strive to be better people, which will eventually lead us down the right path to true happiness, and who knows; maybe even true love.And no you don't have to settle for jerks like this one all in the sake of 'having someone' Have a wonderful evening. Boy was this cake good !!!
If you're interested in seeing if the guy you're dating may have some unfinished business elsewhere, or maybe a shady past, please click this blog post and visit http://dontdatehimgirl.com/home/ This site allows you to put a persons name into a search and wait to see if other women who dated him, may have posted a warning or something about him. It's no true way of knowing because many guys use a different name, or many women just don't worry about posting or even know that they can. Needless to say, check him out first!
Tinzley Bradford
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