Can I ask why some men act interested and set up a date that never happens, then you don't hear from them for about a week, not to mention you never received a clear explanation as to why they didn't make it happen in the first place.
Why is this guy trying to call me after an entire week has gone by and why the ridiculous email about how he wants to be with me? Look, you had your chance but it's too late I may have met someone else who I'm interested in. Why is he getting mad? He had the first shot, but he blew it. Next time be a man and say you just can't make it this time, but maybe another time. Don't just no show and expect a woman to just be okay with it. Be honest and just maybe you might get a woman and a good one...
I recently met a guy in the Pub-lix parking lot up the street from my house. I mean this guy almost broke his neck staring at me. So after I noticed he seemed to be waiting on my reaction to his reaction, I made my move. We met eyes as he walked towards the barber shop in the plaza, he then smiled and kinda stood there looking at me. I showed my interest by backing up and he got the hint, and he walked over to my car.
"Are you married? " You got a boyfriend?" He asked, I said no and no. He was too handsome, had a cute little dimple, was well dressed, and smelled good. So he asked if he could call me, I said sure after I asked him if he too was single.He got my number, I got his and that was that.
I then went on to ask when can I expect a call because I don't like giving my number out, and then the man doesn't call? He grinned " I get off at 7:00, so I will call around 9:00." He said.
This was about one week ago, still no call...interesting.Hmmm....
I finally spoke with him after I made the first attempt to reach out to him. I asked, so why didn't you keep your word and call? His response, " I been going through some family issues, I been busy."
Needless to say, I have deleted his number from my phone. I mean give me a break!! I know how men think, if they are interested in a female nothing but death can keep him from her. I want to hit it off with a man, I want a successful relationship, but I don't think I should half to chase any one down. If he tries to call me now, I don't think I will talk. I mean the stage has been set, and as far as I'm concerned he has already shown me he's not a man of his word.
Can somebody tell me what the point of that was??
Why ask for my number and set a time that you plan on calling, and not do it?
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