I have the right stop calling you if I'm no longer interested in you. I have the right to tell you if you are a jerk and that I will no longer be going out with you. I have the right to look at you and decide you are not my type.Yes I have the right. It bothers me, when some men began bashing females who are just telling it like it is. I mean when a female shares how she feels about dating and her bad experiences, many men get upset and they start to team up in effort to I guess back her against the wall of shame.Example,when a female says something like, it's tough finding a good man;instead of someone saying well if I had the chance, I would change your mind. I recently met this guy and he says to me I like you and I want to be with you. He says I can get used to being with you every day, I want to date you can we date? You are so pretty I'm surprised you don't have a man and you are just my type strong, focused, together blah blah blah freaking blah..... So I began to interrogate him, rightfully so.. I mean he said all these things, but can and will he stand behind it?
I asked him all the questions anyone with sense, would ask a man talking all this bull crap..I asked the what, the when, the where, the how and of course the who...Let me tell ya, he couldn't handle it. I could have been the average female, who hears all these fake promises, and allowed my emotional rollercoaster to kick in. I then would have kissed, hunched, and well you know. But I chose not to,see I'm all about keeping it real or keeping it moving. ( he was having a tough time keeping it real.So why would I engage in such behavior just because he
said all those sweet things to me??
Just aso you knw, he never called again once he saw I wasn't an easy target. So you tell me, was I being hard on him or was he just a jerk looking for a cheap thrill?
Well not on my watch....
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