I was asked to share my opinion on how I feel about couples having sex in the morning instead of at the same old time most people get kinky. I think this is a fun hot topic and it shines some light on why switching up your daily morning routine can spice up your relationship especially if you have kids!
There are so many "routine" things we do in the morning and if you're a mom like me, it's double sometimes triple the effort!
We get up and get the kids ready, we rush to get ourselves ready. We rush to get to work barely making it at times. We make sure everything we we're supposed to do to prepare for this day is done! Then with all the rushing and feeling anxious.... We hope we have time to stop for coffee!
Where is the excitement in this same old daily routine?
I'll tell you where it is..... In The Bedroom!
Sex in the morning is best because ......
1) It adds excitement to your life and your mates life.
Yessss making time to start your morning with something that not only puts a smile on your face but it puts a smile on your mates face as well is a warm way to say I love you and we still got it. He'll be hyped if you start his morning off with passionate sex instead of requesting his assistance with changing soiled diapers like you do every single morning! Talking about keeping him hooked??? Oh he'll be " Hooked " alright! Literally...Every single morning!! Bong! Yong! Yong!!!
2) What a way to say good morning!
Too many times we start our boring mornings with the same old thing and we many times get too busy to even say good morning to the love of our life right? Having sex in the morning BEFORE the kids are up is not only a great way to say good morning but it's fun and it also happens to bring back those young adult memories when you used to sneak and freak as a youngster! Oh you know you did it and didn't it feel good? Well the same thing goes for starting your day off with a little extra "whip cream" and I ain't talking about for hot chocolate! It keeps the fun and excitement in your relationship!
It's often said that lack of sex is one of the main reasons couples start to lose interest in each other. Don't allow that! Wake up and smack it first thing! Oh Yeah!
3) It can make you moms feel sexy all over again.
Face it, I'm not saying everyone is the same but after giving birth and becoming a mom, many time females just no longer feel attractive! Am I right?? I went through it, a few of my friends went through it. It happens but there's something super sexy about being intimate in the morning! You can dominate the bedroom which will also make you feel empowered to dominate your work load in the office or where ever you work! You ever heard that saying " You must have gotten some last night?" Well now you can think to yourself ... " Oh it wasn't last night honey!" You'll have a new pep in your step if you start your morning off with sex!
For some reason I feel like I'm the hottest mama in the office after early morning sex! Go ahead, give yourself a sexy makeover by just arching your back! Get it??
4) It's good for you!
No seriously... It's really good for you. Just like many fitness freaks start their mornings off with exercising? This has been a proven benefit that makes you feel good, look good and have tons of wit and energy throughout the day. It's been said that some of THE most successful people exercise in the morning right???? Well it's also been proven that SEX is a form of exercise!! So " Pump Pump Pump it up!"
5) It's a great way to communicate!
Yes I said it! Sexing in the morning allows you to release a lot of tension that may have been built up over time. I'm sure you can agree that smartphones and social media are great ways to stay in touch with long lost friends or people you admire but it should not be the only way you communicate with your spouse. If all you do is text.. When do you make time to sex? Come on release and express your inner thoughts all whilst getting your grove on!
It can be tough trying to balance motherhood, wife, employee, and still remain a hottie to your significant other but if you stop texting and start actually sexing in the morning,this just might be another relationship challenge you've mastered!
Signed Tinzley Bradford "Love Coach for Moms"
The Love Coach for Moms!