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Sunday, January 11, 2015

Add a little "Freaky" to my Latte Please! Moms....Spice Up Your Relationship!

I was asked to share my opinion on how I feel about couples having sex in the morning instead of at the same old time most people get kinky. I think this is a fun hot topic and it shines some light on why switching up your daily morning routine can spice up your relationship especially if you have kids! 

There are so many "routine" things we do in the morning and if you're a mom like me, it's double sometimes triple the effort!  

We get up and get the kids ready, we rush to get ourselves ready. We rush to get to work barely making it at times. We make sure everything we we're supposed to do to prepare for this day is done! Then with all the rushing and feeling anxious.... We hope we have time to stop for coffee! 

Where is the excitement in this same old daily routine? 

I'll tell you where it is..... In The Bedroom!
Yes I said it's in the bedroom mama!! 

Sex in the morning is best because ......

1) It adds excitement to your life and your mates life. 

Yessss making time to start your morning with something that not only puts a smile on your face but it puts a smile on your mates face as well is a warm way to say I love you and we still got it. He'll be hyped if you start his morning off with passionate sex instead of requesting his assistance with changing  soiled diapers like you do every single morning! Talking about keeping him hooked??? Oh he'll be " Hooked " alright! Literally...Every single morning!! Bong! Yong! Yong!!!

2) What a way to say good morning!

Too many times we start our boring mornings with the same old thing and we many times get too busy to even say good morning to the love of our life right? Having sex in the morning BEFORE the kids are up is not only a great way to say good morning but it's fun and it also happens to bring back those young adult memories when you used to sneak and freak as a youngster! Oh you know you did it and didn't it feel good? Well the same thing goes for starting your day off with a little extra "whip cream" and I ain't talking about for hot chocolate! It keeps the fun and excitement in your relationship! 
It's often said that lack of sex is one of the main reasons couples start to lose interest in each other. Don't allow that! Wake up and smack it first thing! Oh Yeah! 

3) It can make you moms feel sexy all over again.

Face it, I'm not saying everyone is the same but after giving birth and becoming a mom, many time females just no longer feel attractive! Am I right?? I went through it, a few of my friends went through it. It happens but there's something super sexy about being intimate in the morning! You can dominate the bedroom which will also make you feel empowered to dominate your work load in the office or where ever you work! You ever heard that saying " You must have gotten some last night?" Well now you can think to yourself ... " Oh it wasn't last night honey!" You'll have a new pep in your step if you start your morning off with sex! 
For some reason I feel like I'm the hottest mama in the office after early morning sex! Go ahead, give yourself a sexy makeover by just arching your back!  Get it?? 

4) It's good for you! 

No seriously... It's really good for you. Just like many fitness freaks start their mornings off with exercising? This has been a proven benefit that makes you feel good, look good and have tons of wit and energy throughout the day. It's been said that some of THE most successful people exercise in the morning right???? Well it's also been proven that SEX is a form of exercise!! So " Pump Pump Pump it up!" 

5) It's a great way to communicate!

Yes I said it! Sexing in the morning allows you to release a lot of tension that may have been built up over time. I'm sure you can agree that smartphones and social media are great ways to stay in touch with long lost friends or people you admire but it should not be the only way you communicate with your spouse. If all you do is text.. When do you make time to sex? Come on release and express your inner thoughts all whilst getting your grove on! 

It can be tough trying to balance motherhood, wife, employee, and still remain a hottie to your significant other but if you stop texting and start actually sexing in the morning,this just might be another relationship challenge you've mastered!  

Signed Tinzley Bradford "Love Coach for Moms"

The Love Coach for Moms! 

Sunday, November 23, 2014

Is That Blue Ivy Making a Cameo In Mommy Beyoncé’s New Video 7/11? Check Out These Photo Grabs...Cool!

Screen shot from Beyonce's New Video 7/11

The internet has been on fire ever since Beyoncé released her new and latest video 7/11 on November 21st. With over 23 million views already, this is yet another one of Beyoncé’s genius ideas.  She just keeps on "BEYing" a trendsetter. 

This video reflects on her way of having fun with the girls , dancing, booty popping, drinking a little and just having a good time but one girl stood out in particular. Is that Blue Ivy laying on the bed as mama Beyoncé films the bed room scene where she's seen pop locking, jumping off the bed and just enjoying herself. I know Blue Ivy could have been mistaken for clothes on the bed especially considering this room has definitely been lived in. Looks a lot like mine LOL. (Not all the time just sometimes) 
But what made me notice was the movement and the different positions of this cutie pie laying there so preciously in the background. Take a look and the photos below and feel free to tune in to the video I’ve included below compliments of You Tube. What do you think? Is that Blue Ivy?  

Also what do you think of this video? 

In a since this reminds me of myself because how many times have we as moms just turned on our favorite song and danced around the house in our PJ’s or underwear while our babies were just chilling in the back ground looking like "What's mommy doing?" I love the concept behind Beyoncé’s video. 

Looks Like Beyoncé had a great time filming this video and whether you're feeling the video and song or not, life is all about having fun, doing what you love and just being yourself which is clearly what Beyoncé is doing here. Let’s just say I didn't go out last night I put my hands up and did a lil pop locking around the house. Looks like I still got it!! LOL

Screen shot from Beyonce's New Video 7/11

Screen shot from Beyonce's New Video 7/11

Screen shot from Beyonce's New Video 7/11

Screen shot from Beyonce's New Video 7/11

P.S. When she says " Hold that coke like alcohol" What does that mean?

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Tinzley B

Sunday, November 16, 2014

"Beyond the Lights" Did NOT Get Rotten Tomatoes!!

Photo Credit via Hello Beautiful http://hellobeautiful.com/2014/08/25

While everyone else was busy throwing rotten tomatoes at the‪#‎AaliyahMovie‬ on ‪#‎Lifetime‬ ,  I was enjoying ‪#‎BeyondTheLights‬ and there were no tomatoes needed because this movie and cast were amazing!!

I blog about relatonships and dating and I'm always looking for that "Hero" to come along and save the damsel in distress. Actor Nate Parker did just that in this fantastic film about love, passion, insecurity, self hate, struggle, determination and the need to be seen...... No I mean really seen......

Beyond the Lights was a heart warming, romantic movie that made me want to marry actor Nate Parker and dye my hair freaking purple!! (Gugu Mbatha-Raw rocked that look!) I loved this movie!! The cast was perfect, on set chemistry gave me chills and the story line made me feel for many of today's pop stars yet made my heart smile!

Photo Credit via Hello Beautiful http://hellobeautiful.com/2014/08/25

How do I get a man like this to fall head over heels for me?  I'm certain we all would love to know the secret. Sometimes we're blinded by the bright lights of distractions and we're going with the flow of expectations that society has led us to believe is the right path for our relationship choices. We go for the flashy guy with money, nice clothes, flashy cars and houses but he lacks the love we're so eagerly longing for.  He just throws money at us, treats us any kind of way and we're hooked all because of the flashy lifestyle he's giving us. 
Then there are times we go for a guy where we know it's all about the sex for him and we know he's not stable, not working, living a life of hustling where he depends on hitting a lick to get cash, which puts is in harms way. He treats us mean and disrespectful and is controlling and abusive  and  clearly is seeing more than one woman yet we deal with him because we want so badly to be with someone. Anyone for that matter!  The moment we stop the sex, he's gone! 

We many times shy away from the hardworking man of God who isn't afraid of commitment, who shows us he's interested in us, who may not be working a job we think is the very best but he's well established and is doing well for himself.
This guy can see your struggle and hurt but he doesn't judge you for it as a matter of fact, he wants to make things better for you but the thing is, he's not the typical guy you would date. He's not the guy you want but he's definitely the guy you need!

 In this film you're given a front row glance into the life of a new hot pop star "Noni Jean" played by the beautiful 
Gugu Mbatha-Raw. After watching this movie, I know that it doesn't matter how famous, popular, extremely unaproachable or out of someones leauge a person may appear to be. Love is where you find it and where it finds you. Actor Nate Parker who played "Kaz Nicole" definitely showed us this. He's a police officer/ security guard and not this big rich or famous superstar..... who would have thought?

 Well, I won't give the  movie away but I will say this movie is brilliant and a must see! I left the theater feeling like there is a chance for true love to find us all. Sometimes you just have to search #Beyond the Lights! Even the ones in your life blinding you from what you really need! 

On a scale of 1 to 10 with 10 being the best.....I give this movie a gigantic 10!

Tinzley Bradford 

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

The Struggle is Real for us Single Ladies.... Here's why!

I'm a good catch but can't seem to find a man who is ready to settle down with just one woman. I also keep running into guys who seem to be looking for "mama" instead of a potential mate! No I'm not co-signing for nothing and NO I'm not buying you a playstation!!  

The selection of distinctive gentlemen is limited. I have to choose from men who just don't seem to get it....still walking round with their booty out!! That's  just too much for me to stomach. I just can't help but to constantly  imagine  skid marks on the other  side of those  underwear! Makes me cringe!! I know there are some very intelligent guys who wears their pants sagging like the photo above and I'm sure they may think they have a good reason but I don't want to hear their reason I just want the pants pulled  up or NEXT!!

I have to deal with the player out here trying to have a bit of this and some of that!! I'm not sharing no man so if you already have a girl..... This conversation is over!!  Keep it moving!

Then you got those men walking round looking like Humpty Dumpty  and the predator combined but expecting me to be flawless or perfect asking if I got pretty feet or sexy legs yet his belly is resting on the steering wheel cause it's so big.  Boy please!!! You wanna see my feet?? What about them three, four double chins you got?? 

Oh and let's not forget the 42 year old " I'm gone be a rapper" dudes still out here hoping to land a record deal instead of landing at a job with a 401 K and benefits!  If you ain't a rapper by now.... Please just stop it already!! I don't wanna hear no free style and I don't care about no demo tape!! Get a job at  40 okay?? 

And did I forget to mention the married guys who come with all that BS about how complicated things are between them and their wife?? Awwww that ain't my problem! If you're not single and available... NEXT!! 

Then here comes that guy with this high sex drive wanting to screw because we went  out on one date! Boy I don't owe you my body cause we ate! 

And if I smell one more horrific booty breath trying to hit on me!!! I'm done I'm just done!! I mean really??? Hygiene  is crucial!! It's no way with your mouth so close to your nose, you don't smell that fonk!!! Do something with that or don't expect  me to kiss you EVER!! 

I'm sorry but I just no longer have patience  for the crap anymore! Please get lost if you're not trying to get with one good woman and prosper together!  

Yes....The struggle is real out here for us single women! 



Tinzley B

Sunday, September 7, 2014

How to tell if she's a true sports fan or if she's just faking to get a man?

Representing for thre Atlanta Falcons

It's football season! Yay! The fans are excited, the team competition posts are trending on face book, and the energy is present. We've seen everyone from kids, to teenagers, to men and women fully covered in their favorite teams attire even down to the dog dressed in a doggie jersey. One of the things I often see a lot of as a female is women who may not be taken as a seriously as most men when it comes to being a true sports fanatic who is loyal to a specific team. Frankly many people seem to believe some women don't even like sports and they are only faking it to try to snag a man. Face it, men are pretty much as equally attracted to and wowed by a female football junkie as he is to a female bike rider. It's just something about a woman who can hang with the fellas in a male dominated sport such as football. Me personally, I'm from ATL GA. so for me, I'm a Falcons fan by nature but I'm not a regular and I admit it. You won't see me with earrings, and posters or car tags and Falcons mugs, but I love my team and will always be cheering them on.

I decided to write this article because I must say, I have seen a few female suspects who don't truly seem to be as big of a fan as they pose to be and as a matter of fact, they despise the sport and all the egotistical chatter that comes with it.

So how do you spot a fake female fan who's just posting "Go team" on their FB timeline in hopes of getting a guy? How to spot a true female football fan and know the difference between the fakes.

1. A true female football fan will have tons of posts about their favorite team not only for the current football season, but if you scroll on her FB page and go to last year’s football season and the years before.... you will see the same team posts and all the hype about their favorite team as you're seeing today. A fake won't have any posts and you wouldn't even know they were a fan if you didn't see that one helmet they fraudulently posted on their time line talking about “Go Team!".  What eva!) Fakes never talk about the sport, they don't know any of the plays nor players names, and have never attended one football game in their life nor have they shown an interest. Most true female football fans run in packs or with their fathers or significant others. They plan tail gates and many times hold season passes. Fakes have never even been to a little league football game!

2. Look for the gear! True female football fans have all the gear. From the earrings and hair accessories, to the sweat shirts, the socks, tee shirts, bracelets, pillows, and even the cup they drink out of. They are so known for being a fan, people often give gifts with their team’s logos on them and many times they get surprised with free tickets and this excites them. Fakes don't even know the teams colors and haven't even purchased nor worn a real team jersey. Going to Walmart and buying a lame tee that says your favorite team does NOT mean you're a real football fan. If you give a fake a set of football tickets as a gift, she'll more than likely look at you like you're crazy and kindly head to the nearest Michael Kors shop! True fans would love the tickets, fakes could care less.

3. Does she watch the game or attend the games with you with excitement and enthusiasm? Real female football fans are the first to be right there watching or attending the games with you or friends. They make food and hold official football viewing parties at their homes and invite people over. They give high fives and talk smack like the guys, they are the truth!  Fakes are nowhere near excited and they often sit in the back or in another room watching Real House Wives secretly grumbling how much she gets tired of you watching football all the time. Then she'll occasionally come into the room where you and your peeps are watching the game and start trying to get your attention and getting mad cause you're into the game instead of her. Then she'll give all your friends the stanky eye and leave the room and text you saying you're not getting any tonight. Ugh!!!!! 
(Such a Drama Queen!)

4. Real female football fans know just as much or more about the sport than you do! Chances are they grew up with it! Warning...Don't ever try to quiz and true female football fan about the game or ask her to run to the store to get snacks during the game... You just might get embarrassed! Fake fans are already uncomfortable and have to Google every time someone says or asks them something about the game so they don't mind running to the store to get snacks because they aren't really interested anyway. Anything to get out of there! 

What it all boils down to is, if you're a football fan you better make sure your mate is just as hype or can put on just for your sake. If you're not able to spot the fakes beforehand, be prepared for that mate who's not really that into the sport to be a handful when it's football or basketball season. You may not have known she didn't really care for the sport because you may have been attracted to her for other reasons then of course she started faking to like sports and without question....you were hooked. Now I'm not saying don't date girls who don't care for football because there are plenty of females who don't particularly love the sport, but they will make a sacrifice for their boos, but I'm warning you about the fakes who are only in it to win it and once they get the guy, you better get ready to turn that TV off, put the remote down, tell your company they got to go, and sit and cuddle with her because if not..... You're not going to get any that night or any night you choose the game over her buns hun! 

Go Falcons!!! And that was real! LOL

Tinzley B

Monday, August 11, 2014

Over Coming a Troubled Past and Finding True Love through Self Love. The Brenda Davis Story



In today’s world I'm  sure many of you can agree that there are so many people who have experienced a troubled past. One of the reasons I started this blog and wrote my first self-help dating guide  " And You Wanna See My Feet?" http://www.amazon.com/And-You-Wanna-See-Feet/dp/1497408423 was because I've seen so many broken, hurt, bitter, depressed and stuck people who because of bad relationships, a troubled past as well as unexpected deception from people they trusted, have been unable to pick up the pieces and move on. They simply CAN'T LET GO OF THEIR PAST! This can cause one to allow bad behavior from others, feel insecure and begin to hate themselves and settle for B.S. in a relationship just so they can have say they somebody, and they just give up on themselves and that's when allowing abuse can begin. Some even become deeply depressed which can lead to suicide. 

Another sad thing I've noticed is, when you don't feel good about yourself you will do one of two things. You'll either be very anti-social and isolate yourself from the rest of the evolving world or you'll become a rebel who just does not care and will do any and everything from having unprotected sex to using and abusing drugs just to hide your pain.

I often wondered why some people can make it and some people just can't? For me I'm just zero tolerance for any crap from men because you already know, I just don't have time for it and I don't see the point of the extra stress of someone who’s dragging me down all up in my way.....NEXT!!  But for some females they are quite alright with bad behavior and many times, they'll make excuses for his behavior. If he talks to her any kind of way she'll say "Oh that's just how he is!" If he cheats on her she'll give him an ultimatum instead of packing her stuff and getting the h--l on! We see these signs of low self-esteem mostly from women , now this is not to say that men don't have past issues because we all know it can be both men and women but where I notice the behavior most is from females. We've got to share positive stories of overcoming such as my highlighted guest today Brenda Davis.

Today’s blog is about a young lady who has quite a testimony. Brenda Davis of Atlanta GA. She was sexually abused by a close family member from the age of ten years old, she was abandoned and left to raise three kids by herself, and she began to party, smoke weed and get high all the time. Her life was spiraling out of control and going downhill FAST, she'd simply lost her way! The thing is, she did NOT care!

 I always believe it's important to share stories from everyday people just like you and me who overcome adversity and today can look back and say “Yay I made it!”

Brenda Davis

I'd been following Brenda on Face Book and couldn't help but to notice the very inspirational posts she'd often make. One of many of her updates stood out which led to this interview. I wanted to hear it directly from the person who experienced it. See many times we see celebrities speaking very candidly about their struggles and their broken pasts but for me, I'm just as interested in my next door neighbors struggle and how they overcame. What are some of the things they did that caused them to get out of their pace of stuck? For Brenda she says it was her kids who were her breaking point. She knew if she did NOT stop her self-destructive behavior, her kids just may have ended up in DFAC's system and scattered out through various group homes. See her exact words below from her Face Book Page:

"Cried tears of joy today...can’t believe how my God has brought me so far...I give all praise and honor to him...without him it wouldn't be done...life has taken me through so many ups and downs but yet I managed to come through...I've been down a long road. As I look back and see myself I cry tears because I didn’t know my own strength...I was so bitter and broken I was lost...I didn’t have guidance. But I found my way with the help of God...I'm almost to my mark of success...I'm just a living testimony to young women who almost gave up...don’t give up your breakthrough is about to come"

Brenda and I holding a copy of my book http://www.amazon.com/And-You-Wanna-See-Feet/dp/1497408423 .

So what was it about this young lady that allowed her to transform into this beautiful, self-aware mother of three and child of God?  Because everybody doesn't turn out like this, everyone can't just turn their life around in such a dynamic way. Even with all she's gone through today at just 26 years old she's a first time homeowner, she has plans to get married in the near future with her longtime fiancé and male role model to all three of her kids, she's got a full time job at a very well-known credible hospital and she has plans to write her first novel and become a mentor for young adults around the world. This is a woman who has her head on straight! When asked how she did all this with such a troubled up bringing she made it very clear:

"Ladies find your way. If you're lost and you're just out there in the world, nothing will ever change if you don't know your own value! If you're in an abusive relationship, get out now! There is nothing you can do to change someone who's mistreating you and instead of spending your time hoping he'll change, spend it working on yourself! "

Brenda with her family, two boys and one girl. One kid was away playing video games during this shot :)

Please watch the one on one interview with Brenda Davis below. There's a nice bonus at the end. Did I mention Brenda has a beautiful voice and she graces us with a few vocals from a song by James Fortune "Live Through it." One of the many reasons I was so wowed by her. The words to his song says it all. " Live through it, Grow through it, Get through it, You can make it if you just Pray through it!" 

 I want every one of you who took the time to read this post and watch my interview to know, if you're going through some tough times in your life and you're broken and you're bitter.... Don't let it consume you because it could destroy your future and if you have kids, it could destroy theirs too. Not to mention it could cause you to become socially awkward and lack the ability to connect with everyday people on a personable level because you're too busy thinking about how many people have hurt you. I want everyone to know you too can go to that place where everybody knows your name and where many of them share the same pain, that pace is call "Planet Earth." Make sure you find a way to push through it and learn to love yourself again and always remember......You're NOT alone! Please stay tuned coming soon the complete interview with Brenda and her fiancé in my upcoming new episodes of "Power Couples Who Rock That are Not Celebrities!"

Sunday, May 25, 2014

Find her, pursue her, date her, then marry her or GET LOST !

Credits iStockphoto.com

This post couldn’t be more clear and easy to understand. I was thinking the other day about why it seems to be so hard for men and women these days to come together and most importantly STAY together. Then it dawned on me.....Many men are not doing the work in the proper order. I know we all have work to do in order to find and keep true love but todays post is centered on how men can effectively find a mate and keep that mate based on what women look for.

I thought to myself how will a man know what's best for him in a woman if he doesn't even know what he's looking for or should be looking for? I mean I'm sure we all THINK we have an idea of what we want but I have come to the conclusion that watching Nicki Minaj swing her bottom on live TV and watching Beyoncé surf boarding is NOT an effective way to find long lasting love that fits YOUR lifestyle! See you guys should be looking for the ideal woman who fits your needs and is everything you've been looking for in a mate. I mean EVERYTHING! Not just the big but or boob job, I mean EVERYTHING! Now I'm not hating on Nicki or Beyonce' because I admire them both for different reasons and they have their own relationships Beyonce' has Jay-Z and Nicki has a man as well so they are doing their thing, but men, you aren't Jay-Z sorry! 

The questions you should be asking when seeking a lifelong mate.

Is she ambitious? Is she fun to be around? Does she answer your calls? Does she listen? How did you meet her? What are a few of her greatest qualities? What attracted you to her? What keeps you attracted to her? Is she family orientated? Have you met her family? What value does she bring to the relationship and to your life? Does she take care of herself? Is she confident? Does she smile? Is she patient? Does she understand you? Do you understand her?

These are just a few of the positive qualities about good women you should be looking for. This is a great way to know what you really want and should want in a mate. And notice, a big but was not among the choices. Not saying you shouldn't be pursuing that but it shouldn't be the ONLY quality in her you see.

So with all this being said, I have decided to break it down for you in four easy steps. This post is called  
"4 Ways to Find her, pursue her, date her, then marry her or GET LOST!" I named it that for a reason and I'm going to speak on this from a personal stand point real fast. I'M SINGLE AND NO I'M NOT LOOKING FOR BOOTY CALLS OR TEMPORARY HUNCH PARTNERS... I'M LOOKING FOR LONG LASTING LOVE AND IF YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FOR THE SAME THING THEN NO.... WE ARE NOT A MATCH! GET LOST...NEXT!! 

Okay so let me proceed with my four step method to finding true love in a woman.

                  Find Her

When you see a woman that you are interested in and the moment you meet her you start to see things in her that just stand out to the point where you want to know more about her.. This is the first step to "finding" her. You are looking for long term qualities not just temporary thrills in a potential mate. See this is where a lot of guys mess up. They go for the nasty, negative, diva minded boss chic’s with a huge chip on her shoulders who can't even hold an educated conversation without it involving how "Bossy" she is and how she gets what she wants when she wants it. Then they fall head over heels for her and the rest is many times downhill from there because the moment she sees she CAN'T get constant money , or a pair of red bottoms or any and everything her small materialistic diva mind demands then it's on to the next one for her. And you....Well you're left standing there broke and broken down because you went for the wrong type of woman who you KNEW you weren't a match for.  But you wanted her because she's so freaken HOT and she resembled some video vixen off TV! FOOL!

One of the many problems with this way of thinking is, many of you men are looking for perfection when you yourself don't even have it. You want a dime but you aren’t even a nickel! I'm just saying! 

Now that you get my point, it’s time for you to pursue a more humble, positive, selfless woman of God who happens to be looking for the same thing you are... a commitment. And she's pretty and nice too.  Once you find this sweet nice classy lady, then it's time to get her attention with pursuit!

           Pursue Her

So now that you found her, what are your next steps? What are you going to do to get her? Have you called her today to see how she is doing and to get to know more about who she is? NOT TEXT I said CALL! See this is another big mistake men make. Texting is for people who have already established some sort of personal connection or if someone has asked you to text them your info or something. Texting is NOT how you show a woman you are interested. We want to feel wanted not like we're just something for you to do to pass time! We want to know you're interested and when you call and actually take the time to TALK to us we can see a little bit more into your intentions. 

Pursuit means an effort to secure or obtain and what this means is, if you want her you better show her and do all possible to get and keep her attention. We want to feel secure and safe with a potential mate. We want to know that he found us and he's not just stopping there, but he wants us! Now he's showing us how much he wants us though his actions of pursuit! Do you remember that movie that actor Will Smith played in called "The Pursuit of Happiness?" A true story about Chris Gardner’s one year struggle with homelessness and being a single parent trying to find happiness in his life. He never quit no matter what failures he was faced with. No matter how many obstacles came his way and even sleeping in bathrooms he never stopped pursuing his happiness. THIS is what I mean by pursue her. You must stop at nothing to get her. That's only if you know you're ready for her. So how do you show her this? Well Dating helps. 

         Date Her 

Do you really know what dating means? Men seem to think dating means the same thing as being in a committed relationship. They run or many are too cheap to spend a few dollars on showing someone they claim they are interested in a nice, romantic evening. Yet they will go dish out $100 bucks at strip joint to make it rain on some random naked chic who doesn't even know he's there and is just taking his money. Fools! You want a good woman who is exclusive to you well guess what? Dating is part of the investment. I can't begin to count the amount of men who I have personally heard tell me "I don't want to spend money on a woman I may not even want!" Huh?? Then why are you there? Go sit at home and grab a Playboy magazine and get busy because in today’s world, you better be ready to go out on not just one date but a few dates if you plan to be taken seriously! It's all a part of the plan to "marry her" right? Keep in mind when you're looking for true love and you know you are ready to pursue marriage you're going to be spending tons of money once you become a married couple so why not practice with dating? I you're too cheap to date then you aren’t ready for marriage. Dating shows her you don’t mind the sacrifice all in the honor of making her feel special. HELLO? I think I'll say that again “Dating shows her you don't mind the sacrifice all in the honor of making her feel special." I don't know about you but when a man goes out of his way to make me feel special and I see it's consistent I know I'm heading in the right direction. So men if you want to make her your wife, then you've got to steal her heart. You can't do that complaining about the price of a box of popcorn on a movie date! Come on dude! 

           Marry Her

Okay so you found her, you pursued her, and you dated her and won her heart. Now you're ready to put a ring on it. Good job, you should be proud of yourself because this just doesn't happen in this order anymore. That's why the divorce rate is so high. There is no real pursuit anymore. People just marry for money, convenience, status or looks these days then the next thing you know. They are on the corner scorned holding up signs about how wrong they were done! So marriage has to be about more than just a ring on her finger and a big old lavish wedding. It has to be about love, friendship, trust, passion, dedication, patience, understanding, acceptance, spirituality and loyalty. Notice big buts or large breasts was not mentioned in this either because once again, you have to want more out of a female than just this. If she's marriage material and happens to have all that then great. So it's time to pick out the perfect ring for your bride to be and get ready to propose. This has to be done the right way. You need to see what she likes by taking her to a jewelry store one day and just putting it out there that you're trying to make sure you know what she likes so when the time comes you will have the perfect ring. Then don't mention it to her ever again until its proposal day! I'm sure she'll be blown away and wondering if you're going to propose soon or when it will be but let her wonder. You just get all the details of the perfect ring and prepare a special time to propose. You can't be the type of guy who doesn't plan on ever marrying a woman who you've been with or years this is why you have to make sure she is the right one and she should be doing the same thing. This means no cheating, no chics on the side, no "friends with benefits" and no lies and back biting. Getting married is something you only want to do once so why not do it the right way by finding her, pursuing her dating her and then BAM....Marrying her!

           GET LOST

It's simple.....If you're a player looking to screw and don't want to be exclusive to just one woman. You look for looks and designer flashy diva-tudes instead of a genuine, pure good real woman then nobody has time for that. GET LOST! We're seeking something more substantial. 

Author Tinzley Bradford


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